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Released: 2020

“Without Me” by Halsey is a powerful pop anthem, a raw narration of her personal experiences in an emotionally exploitative relationship. The song unpacks the layers of her love, sacrifice, and eventual painful realization that her efforts were taken advantage of.

Let’s dive right in. The opening lines, “Found you when your heart was broke / I filled your cup until it overflowed” illustrate Halsey’s selfless love, portraying her as the savior figure who nursed her lover – potentially also hinting at a co-dependent dynamic. Her fear of leaving her lover alone, of them not being able to stand on their feet without her, speaks volumes about the emotional depth she brought to the relationship.

The chorus is an outright accusation. Halsey confronts her ex, reminding them of how she was the one who lifted them up, “put you up there”. The “name in the sky” could imply she played a significant role in their rise to fame or success. Yet, they alienated her – she’s “too far away to hold”. Her repeated questioning, “does it ever get lonely?” underlines the irony that while they’re physically or socially “up there”, they’re emotionally isolated, having lost someone who truly cared for them.

The verse, “Gave love ’bout a hundred tries / Just running from the demons in your mind / Then I took yours and made ’em mine (made ’em mine) / I didn’t notice ’cause my love was blind” is another testament to Halsey’s sacrificial love while showing her naiveté that blinded her from realizing she was being used. Her love was so dominant, she tried to battle her partner’s internal struggles, unilaterally shouldering the psychological burden.

Coming to the end of the storyline, “You don’t have to say just what you did / I already know (I know) / I had to go and find out from them (oh-whoa)” suggests betrayal. It’s Halsey’s moment of disillusionment, possibly discovering infidelity or manipulation from a third party.

In all, “Without Me” is a raw and vulnerable open book of Halsey’s relationship failure and her sense of betrayal. It’s a catharsis, a harsh reminder of the toll a one-sided relationship can take, yet Halsey, through her music, does the equivalent of turning lemons into lemonade, handling heartbreak with the ultimate musical clapback.

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