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Released: 2023

“Hurt My Feelings” by Tate McRae is a pop anthem that delves into the oft-painful territory of unrequited affection and the complications when a deep connection is undercut by another person’s relationship status. In essence, it’s a lyrically raw exploration of remaining connected to someone who’s romantically focused on another, while you’re left grappling with the emotional tug of war.

The opening lyrics, “She wears your number, but I got what you like / She’s got you right now, but I’m still on your mind” sets the stage for the romantic triangle at the heart of the song. Tate’s lyrics echo the sentiment that she knows she is the right fit for the man in question, even though he is currently committed to someone else. The phrase “wears your number” is a colloquialism referring to the other woman being the guy’s current choice or priority.

Her refrain of “Oh na na,” repeated throughout the song isn’t a simple filler, but a verbal expression of frustration and exhaustion at her emotional dilemma – she’s deep in this un-reciprocated situation, and it’s causing a whirlwind of confusion and hurt. The statement “Want you so bad, baby, hurt my feelings” is a candid admittance of her desire for him, and how his unavailability is causing her emotional distress.

Lyrics like “I wanna do something I know ain’t polite / Like show up at your house without calling / Like doing something batshit, make you fall all in” show the depth of her emotional turmoil as she contemplates crossing boundaries she knows she probably shouldn’t.

Her recognition that despite the other woman being his current reality, Tate herself is still on his mind (“She’s got you right now, but I’m still on your mind”) underlines her belief in their undeniable connection and it’s this unshakeable belief that fuels her emotional struggle and keeps her deeply enmeshed in this situation.

The song’s strength lies in its rawness and the singer’s barefaced laying out of her emotions – it’s a powerful expression of a universally-recognizable situation that is all too familiar to those who have experienced the bittersweet sting of unrequited love, where hope, frustration, and hurt feelings share center stage.

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